The girl I am crushing on is so amazing, hardworking, and smart, but she is so busy that I don’t hear from her often. We’ve had quite a few meaningful heartfelt conversations before, but I am not sure if I should continue trying to talk to her or not. What do you suggest?
Contemplating Texting Her
Dear Contemplating Texting Her,
I live by one rule: YOLO. Hear me out. How many hours have you spent waiting for her to text you? How many times have you wondered if she feels the same way about you that you do about her? How long have you been contemplating sending that “heyyy” text to her?
Why waste your time wondering, thinking, or contemplating when you could be given an answer?
Yes, it will take some courage to ask her if she’s interested in talking more regularly, and yes, the answer may bruise your ego, but regardless, you will no longer have to wonder what may or may not happen.
In life, you should always go after what you want. Don’t waste your time on the sidelines when you could be playing the game.
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